Reflections on Married Life

It is now nearly two months since the declaration of two words, "I do," have created an ultimatum in my life.  Never will I be able to retract the proclamation or return to my former life--not that I desire it.  Married life thus far has been beyond my wildest dreams; truly, waiting on God's direction and timing for my life has produced unimagined blessings.  It has not been without its learning or trying moments, but it has been bliss.  I am learning every day about sacrifice, expectations, communication, respect, partnership, wifely/homemaker duties, and more.  As I am alone everyday, I have had more time than ever to pray, and that has blessed me so much.  I have discovered portions of myself that I was unaware existed.  I am learning how amazing my husband truly is!  He is always there to listen and encourage me, values my opinions and thoughts, takes such care of me--physically, emotionally, and mentally, and works so hard.  We reflected today that before we were married, we could not bear to be apart, and thought that it would lessen once married.  However, just the opposite is true.  We find ourselves struggling with being apart even for a few hours--we just genuinely enjoy each other's company, and are learning so much!  We find that we have gone into "hiding."  I think that this will balance out in time.  However, I pray that we never lose what we feel for each other now, but that it will grow and deepen, just as our love and service for Christ does.  Brian mentioned that last night, it brought tears to his eyes to think about how blessed he was.  We both remarked that it's almost impossible to describe and we have no wish to take this for granted!

For those of you out there who are still waiting for "something" to happen in your life, take heart!  And, take advantage of every moment.  Get active.  Explore the possibilities.  Make things happen.  Rejoice in the Lord our God and live free and victoriously!

Smiles!